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Lawrence Shave id: 31079 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 74 Country: Australia City: Sydney About Me: Hi About partner: |
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Oksana id: 53842 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 28 Country: Ukraine City: Kiev About Me: good, reliable, with a good sense of humor. About partner: |
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Oksana id: 53964 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 39 Country: Ukraine City: Kiev About Me: hi About partner: Married, please do not write! |
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Ira id: 54176 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 38 Country: Ukraine City: Kiev About Me: hi About partner: looking for interesting man for serious relations. |
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Margarita id: 9707 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 29 Country: Ukraine City: Kiev About Me: I'm not for those who write about themselves "ordinary" About partner: |
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Svetlana id: 47808 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 39 Country: Ukraine City: kiev About Me: )) About partner: |
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olin id: 51441 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 48 Country: United Kingdom (Great Britain) City: London About Me: honest, loyal man About partner: |
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Anna id: 51281 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 43 Country: Ukraine City: Kiev About Me: I just want to wake up happy every day! About partner: |
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Gintaras id: 51276 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 40 Country: Lithuania City: Kaunas About Me: Contact with me About partner: |
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Ruslana id: 44043 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 34 Country: Ukraine City: Dnepr About Me: I love interesting communication, tea with mint and honey, good books. I appreciate people with sincere emotions. About partner: |
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Irina id: 54170 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 34 Country: Ukraine City: Kharkov About Me: Decent, educated, reliable About partner: |
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Derrick id: 53035 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 57 Country: South Africa City: Cape Town About Me: I am seeking a wife, lover and friend to travel and explore the adventure of life... About partner: You take care of your outward and physical appearance, you are the "essential woman" - feminine, loving, kind. |
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Julia id: 51983 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 41 Country: Ukraine City: Kiev About Me: True Woman. I can honestly and frankly say that. About partner: |
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Feyzi id: 50353 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 48 Country: Turkey City: Istanbul About Me: 27-52 Hello . I am from Istanbul but I live in Marmaris. I am a teacher in there and I like my job! I like to swim in the see. I like to have a walk in nature very much ! I wish with serious relation. Thats all for now. About partner: I want to meet my second half. I hope find her |
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Stepan id: 50192 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 40 Country: Croatia City: Split About Me: honest man About partner: honest lady |
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Olga id: 50356 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 42 Country: Ukraine City: Poltava About Me: Calm, gentle, kind. I want to create a strong family with a good, kind man. About partner: |
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Daniel id: 50368 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 41 Country: Slovak Republic City: Bardejov Presovsky kraj About Me: i like work, hockey, sport, hiking, friendship, relaxation About partner: I'm searching a girl whom I will be sympathetic and will want to share with me for a while. |
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Mila id: 54171 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 35 Country: Ukraine City: Kiev About Me: I love to communicate. About partner: |
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Marina id: 52578 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 34 Country: Ukraine City: Kiev About Me: A simple modest girl with a sense of humor)) About partner: Adequate, without bad habits with a sense of humor) |
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Natasha id: 51501 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 43 Country: Ukraine City: kiev About Me: I'm just a woman .. About partner: |
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Bogdana id: 54169 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 48 Country: Ukraine City: Zaporozhe About Me: Energetic, passionate about work. Loving her family and friends. About partner: |
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Gary Willaim Crooks id: 1698 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 71 Country: United States City: St. Paul, Minnesota About Me: I have been divorced since 2003, and if you believe the calendar, I am not a young man. Despite this evidence, I have my doubts. I am active in many areas of life. I work hard (although, that is becoming less frequent, all the time), and I play hard when it is time to play (which is becoming more often, all the time). :wink: But I also enjoy just relaxing after a long day. I really like good movies and good music (just about all genres); I enjoy theater, dancing, walks in the park, and the countryside, as well. I appreciate good restaurants, good food and good home-cooking. I love driving a motorcycle, watching sports (especially American football, basketball and baseball, but also tennis, ice skating, swimming and diving). I really love horseback riding, which has always been a special thrill for me, and I occasionally enjoy rollerblading. I really love fishing, whenever I can, and perhaps most of all I love traveling to new interesting and exciting places. I cherish adventure in my life and I will go out of my way to meet it head-on, or to create it, myself. I have already explored much of America and a little of Europe, but there are so many places yet to see. On the other hand, the greatest problem I face is that I am alone, and I do not particularly enjoy traveling alone; it is so much more fun when it can be shared with someone special. I try to take good care of my health and my body (I think we only receive one, although, that may change one day), and I love that most people do not believe I appear my chronological age. I certainly don't feel my age (I think maybe I must be 30 or 35 years old. :D I work out at the health club whenever I can and I try to keep my body strong, fit and healthy. Essentially, I think I am a young man in an older body, although even my body is not as old as the calendar claims it is. But to my great advantage, I possess the wisdom of those years of experience. Once you come to know me, I promise you will marvel at my youth and forget about my age. I am an honest, trustworthy, smart, well-educated man, and so much more if you look closely; I am 173 cm tall and weigh 79 kg, which is 175 lbs. I have a good heart, in terms of my compassion, as well as, my health; and I have a remarkably open mind for a man of my generation; I believe that is the source of my problem that I do not fit well with women of my own generation. But I am warm and forgiving, considerate and thoughtful; I love animals, both wild and domestic, especially, dogs, cats and horses, and I dearly love little children; their innocence and honesty totally inspire me and tug on my heartstrings. One of my greatest joys in life is spending time with my children, although I see little of them since they have grown-up, and are now establishing their own lives. I raised two daughters, and one son, who is my youngest. The completely unconditional love that children and parents feel for each other (especially, a parent for a child) is impossible to fully describe, but it is absolutely euphoric to experience. It has been so amazing to watch my children growing up to become such wonderful, productive, happy and caring people; just knowing I contributed to that is a truly great feeling. I honestly believe my children will make a difference in this world, and someday make it a better place for all of us to live. Nonetheless, I must admit I sometimes do miss their younger years (they are currently in their late 20's, early 30's). I miss playing with them, as children, taking them to visit fun and interesting places, explaining the world to them, teaching them how to solve problems, all wonderful learning experiences, and simply watching them slowly develop into happy, responsible adults. Yet, as much as I miss their childhood years, my love for them continues to grow, and they are somehow still becoming even more lovable as they age. Perhaps starting a family relatively late in my life actually helped to keep me young, vibrant and strong, both physically and in spirit. I often have difficulty relating to people my own age and generation. They can be so dull, and especially not open minded; they usually don't understand me or how I think. And then there is my work. I have had an interesting and often exciting working career. I've changed careers twice and I am now working on my third. At this point in my life, I am able to do almost anything I want. However, to be totally honest, now that I am able to work only when I feel like working, I have cut back on some types of work. But when I perform business consulting, this is work that requires something different, in terms of work hours and time. This allows me more free time for activities like travel. Naturally, having a new wife would alter my priorities, and that would be perfectly alright with me. It would give me greater purpose, and make my travels, our travels, more interesting and exciting, and this is something I look forward to with great anticipation and excitement. After college, I began working in real estate management (office buildings, primarily), even though I earned a Bachelors degree in the field of psychology. After a few years, I decided to start my own business in the building services industry, and I operated that business and two others for fifteen years. Now I work occasionally as a business consultant, using my knowledge and experience to help others to start and successfully operate their own small businesses. I find this to be very exciting and gratifying work, although, I am not certain it will be my last career. I have some ideas for another business start-up and I am slowly developing the concept. All of this activity helps to keep life interesting and exciting; but again, those priorities could easily change, and they would, in order to accommodate a new wife into my life. As stimulating as my life is, it is painfully unfulfilled, without a woman with whom I can share it. I want, and very much need, a woman with whom I can develop and share emotional intimacy, not just my love, but my unfulfilled dreams, my fears, my perceived, as well as, self-imposed weaknesses, and all else I hide from the world, and often from me. As we all do, mostly subconsciously, I bury powerful negative emotions, some painful truths, some fallacies, and some fears. We all do this, and it gets buried in the depths of one's mind; naturally, this is deeply personal information, for which we spend huge amounts of mental, and even some physical, energy to hide from the world. Yet we can choose to share all of this information with each other, inside the safety of a close love-relationship, knowing it will go no further; this is precisely the sort of thing we need to do with our soulmates, in order to create a true state of Emotional Intimacy within our relationships, creating a virtually unbreakable bond; a bond like no other. This kind of Emotional Intimacy is a very complex and emotional subject. And I will reserve such a discussion for a future letter to one of the beautiful, complex women from whom I hope to receive a letter, in the near future. To all the women reading my profile, I wish to make it abundantly clear that I have unlimited respect and appreciation for women; and not just because I have raised two daughters. As far back as I can remember, I have always had this deep belief that women are equal to men in all respects that matter, not just in the traditional roles in which men have traditionally trapped them, particularly, in the U.S.; I enthusiastically and sincerely want to see women succeed wherever they try; I consider myself to be one of their biggest cheerleaders! (I think there was a hidden pun in there.) :wink: In part because of this innate attitude, I desire a strong relationship with my woman, which will be built on love, equal rights, equal responsibility, mutual respect, a bond of trust, true emotional intimacy, and NOT dependence. In our relationship, my wife, my partner, my soulmate will always know she is deeply loved and respected; I will make sure of that! Throughout my life, I have observed that a majority of women believe the three most important ingredients necessary for a successful relationship are trust, respect, and love. Those are certainly the most discussed ingredients, and I definitely agree with their assessment. Of course, we do not always hear them listed in that specific order or, for that matter, in any particular order. I placed them in that order only because I believe this order is, in fact, precisely how they must develop. I have also observed that men and women frequently think or "believe" they are in love with someone before they've actually learned to respect and trust them, and worse, before that someone has given them any good reason, over any significant length of time, to trust or respect them. Now, I ask you, do you really believe you can truly love someone for whom you have not developed a great respect and an earned trust? I seriously doubt you can, but you can easily deceive yourself into thinking so. I know I have fallen into that trap a few times in my life, and I have seen it occur in others many times. On the other hand, I have felt a deep trust and respect for a woman, without being certain I yet loved her, and I honestly believe this is how it should be. I have struggled with the issue of trust my entire life. At issue is whether I should assume someone can be trusted, until they prove otherwise, or must I require that trust must be earned? Whether I believed it or not, I have always lived by the former rule, "trust first". It is just the way I am emotionally wired. However, I have come to the conclusion that I am absolutely wrong, and I have the scars to prove that, many of them. Of course, this is not to say there are not good people who can be trusted without having to first earn it, or prove it. Nonetheless, the potential damage that can, and has, resulted from thinking I know whom those good people are, the moment I meet them, can and has been emotionally devastating. This has forced me to begin using my head to override my heart; and this is not an easy thing to do. Admittedly, given the necessary order of those ingredients, I have experienced fewer relationships in which I was able to reach the level of love, and some of those relationships were cut short because she proved trust was not possible. I try to keep in mind that trust can be broken unintentionally, so judging any particular incident should be done carefully. I believe there are also different levels of trust between people, but the level required to sustain true love is rather high. Moreover, the level of trust required to reach the kind of intimacy in which I very strongly believe, and so often refer to, True Emotional Intimacy, is substantially higher yet. If you and I ever begin correspondence, I will elaborate on this higher form of intimacy, and explain why trust is so critical to it. My personal relationships aside for the moment, it has been my experience that women must feel and believe they really matter within a relationship. As a rule, men do an extremely inadequate job of supplying them with this simple need. A woman needs to believe her feelings, her personal concerns, her thoughts and ideas actually matter, and she needs to believe she matters as an person. What she doesnt want is to feel that she is a sidekick and a sexual convenience. Well, the truth is men have precisely the same needs. The only differences are how they react to feeling they do not personally matter. And surprise! They seldom find themselves in such a predicament, because women, as a rule, are far more considerate than men. In the rare instance when it does happen, I think men are quicker to walk away and bury the remnants of the failed relationship, their emotions. I have found that women are not so quick to end things and, to their credit, almost completely unable to bury any of their strong emotions. Generally, this means they fair better in the next relationship. So, tell me, as a woman, do you agree with me? At this point in my life, I want my woman to know she will always be my number one priority. All of her emotions, her thoughts, desires and needs, matter, because she matter to me. And, naturally, I want to be her number one priority, as well. To this, I have learned that if she truly makes me her number one priority, she does so because in her heart that is what she wants to do, it is what she feels. I have found that if I can earn this from a woman, if I get to this level in her heart, and if I respect, trust and love her, the rest of what I need usually comes out of her naturally. As a man, I can solidify her feelings toward me by (1) making it easy for her to completely trust me; and to accomplish this, a man needs to actually become truly trustworthy; and then (2) I must give her legitimate reason to respect me, which is not quite so easy to do. Often, this is something a man either has, in her eyes, or he doesnt. If men would only listen to women, to the emotions and feelings most women so easily express, then respect her feelings and what caused them, I believe it would be much easier for men to understand their women. I get tired of hearing men complain about women, about their emotions and their needs. We, as men, need only admit we have all of the same emotions and needs our women have, rather than burying them and hiding them behind strong, imaginary walls. We need to admit to ourselves that we fear being hurt, and even worse, we fear people learning that we fear anything. If we can bring down those walls, we can raise ourselves to the same level as our women, and actually be able to communicate with them. But this is much easier to type on a computer, than to do. On the other hand, so very much is at stake. I have made it my goal, over the course of the rest of my life, to accomplish this, regardless of how difficult, often painful, sometimes embarrassing and even humiliating, it may be. I firmly believe that our women could and would actually love us more if we did this. For some reason, women do not want a man who is "invulnerable". And they don't want their men running around trying to "fix" everything for her; most of the time, they just want us to stop and attentively listen to them. They want their men to be strong, in many ways; and they want us to be compassionate, especially when it comes to them. But I think they are well aware of our walls and they instinctively know that it is not a good thing to hide so much behind them, and that it can even be dangerous. Never under-estimate female intuition! In this way, women are so much smarter than men. The first thing to do is admit we have these walls, but so many men can never do this. And they will never experience a truly successful relationship. I think it is not only stupid not to make the effort, it's tragic when we don't. About partner: Obviously, and admittedly, I am searching for a woman considerably younger than myself; a woman closer in age to the youth I feel so strongly inside me; I want her to be exceptionally and vibrantly intelligent; and it would be nice if she has a good education; naturally, it would be wonderful if she were physically attractive. After all, I confess, I am a normal male. She does not need to look like or be as beautiful as, well, let's say Angelina Jolie. But so many of you already are that beautiful, so I think my odds are pretty good that she will be, as well. I will not try to deceive you about that issue, or pretend physical attractiveness doesnt matter to me, as I suspect most other men will try to tell you. But it is so much more crucial to me that she possess a strong intellect, and that she is capable of forming and articulately expressing her own opinions and ideas, whether or not they match mine. And it is equally important that my woman is "willing" to do so; it is even important to me that we can, and will, often challenge each other, intellectually, with, naturally, mutual respect. Ideally, my soulmate will possess a strong, confident personality, good self-esteem, an unshakeable confidence in herself and her intellect, and the ability to think independently. Hmmm, now that I see all of that in writing, I have to wonder, are my expectations reasonable, or unreasonable? :o( What do you think? :D While such intellectual bantering will be stimulating for both of us, at the same time, she and I must ultimately be able to agree more often than not. Hopefully, after discussion, we can agree with each other on nearly every issue. Certainly, we will need to agree on enough issues, especially some critical issues, often enough to be able to maintain a powerful and lasting bond of love, while also working together for our common good. I am certain this will never be a problem, as I am an exceedingly reasonable man. Nonetheless, if there is going to be a problem, it is something we will discover early in our relationship. I will give you a little hint as to why these matters will not have a negative long-term impact on our relationship: The greatest strength of our bond will originate from a state of "True Emotional Intimacy", an essential part of our relationship. Moreover, I am a real romantic; I want to fall "forever-in-love" with a woman whose spirit shines brilliantly from her heart, while love flows freely from every pore of her being (love for me, love of life, love of everything good in this world). Ultimately, I want to fall in love with a woman who truly touches my soul, who thrills me with her love, sometimes brings tears to my eyes, always energizes my heart, and adds new joy to our relationship, every day of our lives; I will surely fall in love with a woman who makes me think more deeply and clearly about my life, and causes me to view our world differently and more beautifully than I have ever seen it before; I hope she will be an interesting and fascinating conversationalist with a contagious laugh and sense of humor, as well as, a dynamic zest for life that will forever enhance my own, making both our lives more exciting, more fun and personally fulfilling. I believe all of this will keep the two of us forever young in our hearts. As for my part, in addition to my earlier promises I simply want the opportunity to bring tremendous joy and happiness into her life. Hopefully, I will increase that happiness daily, add to her life's intensity, and expand its meaning. Perhaps, I have described an impossible dream, a fantasy scenario; perhaps, such a woman and such a relationship simply do not exist anywhere in this world, or in real life. So maybe she wont be a perfect woman, but she will be perfect to me. In any case, I truly believe it is most definitely worth my time and energy to search for her; In the end, I will find a woman I think is so wonderful that everything else, including imperfections to my ideal, become unimportant and just plain insignificant to me. I need to address one last matter, which is terribly important. After the birth of my last child, I underwent a vasectomy procedure. This is a minor, in-office, medical procedure, which is intended to prevent a man's semen from leaving the testicles and becoming part of an ejaculation. In simple, abbreviated terms, it sterilizes a man. Therefore, I am no longer capable of conceiving my own children. This does not mean I would not be interested in exploring some of the other options for a family with children. PS: I should tell you more thing, and this is that I would enthusiastically welcome the opportunity to help raise another child, if my Soulmate already has a one. |
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Tom id: 50137 Last visit: 25.09.2018 Age: 59 Country: Norway City: Lofoten About Me: .... About partner: |
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Galina id: 45385 Last visit: 24.09.2018 Age: 50 Country: Ukraine City: Novomoskovsk About Me: I love walks around the city, on the forest for mushrooms. I love my house, it's light and cozy but lonely ... About partner: |
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Oksana id: 48271 Last visit: 24.09.2018 Age: 31 Country: Ukraine City: Cherkassy About Me: looking someone About partner: |
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